Keeping Your Cool…when Your Anger is Hot!: Practical Steps to Temper Fiery Emotions
“\nWhen Your Anger Is Hot!: Practical Steps to Temper Fiery Emotions 3. Blame-shifters: Those who blame others for their faults In our society, shifting blame to others has been elevated to an art form. People caught speeding tell the traffic cop it is the car’s fault for having too much horsepower. Shopaholics blame their massive debt on retailers for displaying irresistible goods. Democrats blame Republicans for America’s woes, and Republicans blame Democrats.
We shouldn’t be surprised, then, ...when angry people blame their explosive tendencies on others. Blame-shifters are the exact opposite of self-blamers (those who say, “It’s all my fault” to every conflict that arises). In contrast, blamers say, “It’s not my fault! I’m mad because you made me mad. It’s your fault!”
Have you ever heard the term blame speak? Perhaps you’ve heard these statements come out of someone’s mouth—or maybe even your own: • “I wouldn’t have gotten mad if you hadn’t made me.”MoreLess
We shouldn’t be surprised, then, ...when angry people blame their explosive tendencies on others. Blame-shifters are the exact opposite of self-blamers (those who say, “It’s all my fault” to every conflict that arises). In contrast, blamers say, “It’s not my fault! I’m mad because you made me mad. It’s your fault!”
Have you ever heard the term blame speak? Perhaps you’ve heard these statements come out of someone’s mouth—or maybe even your own: • “I wouldn’t have gotten mad if you hadn’t made me.”MoreLess
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